The tombs of the great and good fascinate many people. They are often superb works of art in their own right and preserve a remarkable record of the people, customs and costumes of their day. While paintings and sketches may give us textures and colours, it is not until you see a three-dimensional representation that the flowing fabrics of the ladies and the robes and armour of the gentlemen that you realise the full picture.
As you walk around churches and burial grounds, there are usually only names and dates inscribed on headstones and memorials, sometimes an intriguing epitaph or a snapshot of family life through the names of spouses, children and grandchildren. The vast monuments to the lords and ladies of the land not only put a face and figure to those they commemorate, but somehow also serve to remind us of the uncommemorated dead, those buried with no more than a shroud and no stone to mark where they rest.
They also remind us that these were people, just like us, who lived, laughed, wept and loved. They passed through the world as we all do, leaving it as we all must…and that is not a sad or scary thing, but a simple fact of life.
What seems to scare people most is the risk of oblivion, both the feared oblivion of an after where they are not and the obliviousness of those who come after, forgetting that person had ever lived. In some ways, I find these monuments to be a sad and silent witness to the ego’s need to be remembered. They are also a political testament to achievement and position that stand as silent buttresses to the family name through its generations. And perhaps, too, some are simply expressions of the love and grief of those left behind.
Whatever the reason behind their creation, the monuments which may once have been painted in the colours of life, seem to give the lie to the permanence of death, suggesting that it is not the end of a story, but only the beginning.
John predeceased his father, dying young in 1625. His epitaph reads:
O hurrying traveller, grudge not to check thy step. See who I was and ponder well. My name was John Fermor, the eldest son of his parents and the first hope of the House of Fermor. I was in the flower of youth, my cheeks were bright and blooming, and having just married a wife I was full of joy.
Scarcely had I begun my course when suddenly cruel Death bade me halt and stopped the journey I had started. I pleaded my strength and wealth and my flower of youth, my wife’s tears and my father’s sad prayers. But my words fell upon deaf ears: inflexible Death drew his weapon and laid me low with a cruel wound.
But why speak I of myself? So many sons lie here buried in the earth, but their spirit ascends to the stars. While thou readest this, pity my fate and say a propitious prayer. My present fate may soon be yours.
I love the people fashioned for the tombs. I wonder when they posed for them. That must have felt rather odd, don’t you think?
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Yes, it must… though I don’t think their view of death was quite the same back then…
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Incredible monuments. The carvings and three dimensional forms really bring history to life.
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They do, Jennie. You are in no doubt that these were people, not just ‘historical figures’ somehow divorced from reality.
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Exactly!
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This place holds so many treasures.
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It was an amazing little church, Darlene. And to be fair, even now there are still small details I could have shared.
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Incredible Sue. I wonder how long they took to complete, they are so intricate and detailed.
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I know that one of them cost forty pounds…a huge sum of money back then. They really are marvellously detailed pieces.
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Imagine what it would cost now.
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It doesn’t bear thinking about… I bet you could add a handful of zeros though…
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Oh yes, many, many zeros.
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I would imagine so…
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This little church has been a treasure trove of discoveries.
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It has… a superb place to visit. And I found another thing or two in the village that might well drag us back there too 😉
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Thanks again, Michael 🙂
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Thank you Sue, for exploring this piece of England, which was previously unknown to us.
Attention a joke ;-): A joke: This island is a bit bigger than we had hitherto thought. LOL
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This island is enormous when you start looking at the details 😉
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Hi Sue! I love museums and although this is a tomb it seems like a museum of sorts to me. The sculptures are beautiful and if I had the funds I would have a beautiful cemetery on my property and each of my loved ones would have their very own sculpture and huge marble angels would weep over them. The words written on John’s epitaph are chilling and powerful but also moving. Great post!
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It is a museum of sorts, even though it is a church. I scattered my loved ones to the four winds. The earth they walked is monument enough for me.
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That place looks so interesting!
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It is.
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Interesting. I suppose they planned for burial just as some do today. Some people today have family plots. In those days families commissioned paintings of members is they could afford it. If they died without a painting perhaps an artist sketched and measured the body for the tomb. I’d guess there are books about this as about other things. I’ve read some families had death masks made. —- Suzanne
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Many of the potraits were commissioned in life. Some, you get the feeling that they were working from descriptions and didn’t quite get it right. Death has always been big business for those who could afford it.
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Thanks Henrietta
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You are welcome!
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Loved the title!
Such carvings. The little dog being included adds whimsy and hints of the person who was.
A much more fun way to discover history – sad so many only experience what is in windowless rooms and textbooks
Enjoyed this greatly – your observations and especially the epitaph.
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Thanks Phil, the dog made it for me…such a playful touch and, judging by the jewelled collar, much loved by its mistress.
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Is there a reason why young John is lying on his side, or is he just too cool to do what the parents are doing?
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I think he’s just being cool 😉
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Now. Are you SURE he is just being cool? 😮
In adopting such an un-Christian-like pose, somebody has written a story not shared with his father. The position of the rather oddly scaled dagger may be significant, whilst the grip of his hand (sinister) on the shaft of said weapon may offer further clues to the tale. The use of his knightly helm as a temporary headrest, whilst his eyes (like his fathers) remain open, indicate rest rather than sleep or, indeed, death.
The year intrigues me. 1625, and all that. The House of Fermor were Catholic supporters, if not Catholics themselves. Rumblings are afoot! The epitaph borders on hinting at things unwritten… what was that cruel wound that laid low the first hope of the house?
And would such a blow have been dealt so early?
Much to ponder, dear, much to ponder… 🙂
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I did have my own ponder over that pose…especially with the hilt of the sword. By all accounts the Fermors were staunchly Catholic and celebrated the Mass in their home for a congregation of local Recusants.
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Thanks for this wonderful posting. People view death in so many different ways. The dog clutching the ribbon really got to me.
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It did me too…that’s such a touching image …
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