I got into an argument with David the other night, right before he left for the Swiss Alps. It was over something “small” yet it felt big. And when I woke up in the morning, I got clearly inside that this was not about being fair.

It was about being loving.

As I went on my morning run, I opened my heart to why he may have reacted the way he did – what his mindset could have been. And I deeply listened to my own reasons and perspective, and simply made it ok. When we said goodbye, it was full of love.

This brings up a HUGE point – that forgiveness is not about tipping the scales, it’s about me letting go of the “rules” that I have and opening my heart. When I do this, my inner wisdom guides me so directly into loving action!

I’m supposed to be out of my apartment in a week. I still don’t have a place to go, and I find myself crying a lot and doubting my inner guidance to give notice. Here’s another opportunity for me to let go of what I “think” should be happening…

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